Rule Number One: Say and post whatever the hell you want, but be prepared to take the hit.
That's about it. Other than that, some things some people may find disconcerting:
--- We *encourage* public feedback.
This means *constructive* criticism - not just "this is perfect" comments.
--- It is encouraged that you feedback at least TWO pieces of fiction for every piece of fiction that you release on the list.
--- We discourage mundane posts.
--- We don't take a fire extinguisher to flames, but they are discouraged - personal flames suck and you'll be slapped for that.
--- This is not a slash list. It's a slash friendly list - think slash is sick? Then it's not the place for you.
--- Unlike Em City on HBO, there IS fighting and there IS f***ing.
I think you get the gist.
We discuss the show, writing, actors, slash, WHATEVER.
Just try to employ basic courtesy and reply off-list when things should be private, and DO NOT SPAM THE LIST.