It would surprise you the number of guys that are married or married and divorce
with children who are gay.

I wish I could say that I would be surprised at the number of men & women who
were/are in the situation you describe. But all I have to do is read to find
that out. So no it does not surprise me.

I guess I will never understand why so much is placed on who you share your
life/have sex with be it with a man or a woman. On my list of how I describe
myself who I have sex/have a relationship with is so far down on the list I have
to turn pages to find it. It is not 1st on the list. I'm very comfortable with
who I am & who I have sex/have a relationship with has nothing to do with that.
Who I have sex/have a relationship with does not define or describe me as a
person.

I'm sure there are people who are gay who feel the same way I do. They don't
make a big deal out of it. They just go on with their lives & let the chips fall
where they may. To them it's normal & that's the way they are treated by people.
Isn't that how you want to be treated, as a normal human being?

EX: I'm fat. Not just a little but about 150 to 200 lb's fat. At this moment
in time that's normal for me. I may never get all the fat all the way off. But
if I don't make a big deal out of the fact that I'm fat, just do what I have to
do to lose what I can & just get on with my life, only the people who have
problems, will have a problem with my being fat & I don't have to deal with them
if I don't want to. I'm not going to get the whole world to like me. I just have
to get me to like me.

Patt

Harold Rhoades <harrylr@...> wrote:
Well I was gay when I got married and it last 25 yrs. It would surprise you
the number of guys that are married or married and divorce with children who are
gay. They don't want to come out so they get married. They think it helps them
hide in the closet as society treats them so bad and for professional
deceptions. I like Doug also except his little temper tantrums he can have.
Being gay is not going to change who Doug is. Some day when it comes out
remember I told you so. Harold

like you could pronounce it <kscatlvr2001@...> wrote: No, no one *knows*
if Doug is gay. He was married for ten years to a
woman named Patricia, divorced in '99, dated Gen & then Alex McLeod,
the first host of TS. He has lots of gay theater friends, seems
genuinely attracted to women, and in five years has never definitively
answered the "is he or isn't he" question. I think he just likes
people to talk about him.

Honestly, gay or straight, he's still a babe. His sexual orientation
doesn't hamper my enjoyment of him or his work at all.

--- In douglaswilsonfanclub@yahoogroups.com, Harold Rhoades
<harrylr@y...> wrote:
>
> That is ok but I know that so many gay men that are in the closet as
I was in the closet for alot of years. Harold
>
> Lori Lanham <LJLanham@g...> wrote: I'm with ya, Lin! I highly doubt
it, but if he is... I don't want to know!
> ; - )
>
> Lori
>
> On 12/20/05, Lin *** <shadowhawkorig@m...> wrote:
> >
> > Doug Wilson, gay? I think NOT. He could be, who knows, but my FEMALE
> > instincts, doubt it. Ok, maybe it's hoping and praying, he's not.
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: Harold<mailto:harrylr@y...>
> > To: douglaswilsonfanclub@yahoogroups.com<mailto:
> > douglaswilsonfanclub@yahoogroups.com>
> > Sent: Monday, December 19, 2005 1:34 AM
> > Subject: [Douglas Wilson Fan Club] Gay?
> >
> >
> > Does anyone know if Doug is gay? I think he is. Harold







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