I think the point he made about being raised by women is a very good one.  Men raised by women usually fall into two catagories in my opinion.  First they take on more "feminine traits" like thoughtfulness, manners etc.  Or they become total jerks because the women treat them like demigods.

 

I think Sanjaya's curtesy, thoughtfulness etc make people suspect he is gay.

 

A few years ago a friend of mine made the remark...what does it say about us (society)that if a guy wears nice clothes and is polite we assume he is gay.

 

Jon